IMG_4063 My Aunt Cheryl is pretty great. Wonderful, in fact. I got to visit with her for a few hours when I was in Utah last week. She's been transfered to my cousins house now where they can care for her. My Aunt became ill over Thanksgiving and what was thought to be treatable has now turned into the worst. Words like 'terminal' have emerged and we don't know if we are looking at days or weeks or months. It all just seems unreal. What about 2nd opinions? What about a misdiagnosis? Surely they must have it all wrong. She is too young, younger than my own Mother. It just doesn't seem right. IMG_4074I wanted to do something for her but didn't know what. My cousins have her room painted this gorgeous turquoise so I decided to make her a quilt. I don't know what kind of fabric that she would want or choose. I don't even know if she will like this, but I know that she will appreciate that I made it for her. I think she will love that. So I am hoping that all these bright colors brighten her day and do the same for those who come to see her. IMG_4072 With every cut and every stitch, I've been thinking of her. I have wonderful memories of her. Growing up in California we spent time together & I remember playing at her house with Genevieve and picking cherry tomatoes from their garden in the backyard. I've been thinking about the last time we all went camping at the beach and the constant reference to Turd Fergusson. Every game, every conversation somehow always came back to Turd. My Aunt, she is the salt of the earth. When you think of 'family' you are glad she is on your team. She always treated me and my family like we were her own. She is honest and sincere and hilarious. She has the sweetest smile and when she smiles her eyes disappear into little half moons. When I visited her in the hospital in December, she kept telling me that I had the sweetest family and it meant so much. I loved our visit last week. We had some good hearty laughs didn't we Genevieve & Kari? We were laughing at our goofy family members (we are not telling a soul, right??) This quilt means a lot to me and I hope it helps to keep her warm on those cold Utah winter nights. Although it may not be something she would choose, I hope (and know) she'll feel the love and compassion that went into it. The quilt top is almost done (I ran out of fabric today and had to make a mad dash downtown for more) but hope to have it completed & in the mail in the next few days. I want her to get it in time. I'll post more soon.

xoxo

 

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17 responses to “I’m making it for her…”

  1. Celia Avatar

    Just with all the live for her the quilt Williams mame her feel much, much better! What great gift you’re giving her and congratulations for all those sweet memories you hace with her from your childhood!!!

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  2. sandy toe Avatar

    It’s going to be a beautiful quilt!
    sandy toe

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  3. Abbey Rice Avatar

    When our little Kathryn got her cancer diagnosis last year, one of the things that suddenly seemed important to me was to finish a quilt that I had started for her sometime before. I hand-stitched the binding as she was in surgery at Mass General and somehow, it made me feel better to do something tangible, something that felt warm and like a big hug. Sometimes it’s all you can do.
    My best to you aunt. I’m sure she’ll feel your love.

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  4. Mom Avatar
    Mom

    She will love it because she loves you. And she’s one of the most loving people I’ve known.
    Cheryl was 16 and I was 17 when we first met. I’m so excited to be able to sit with her for awile today and share memories. We had the best times together when our children were small.
    Can’t wait to see her with her quilt … I’ll send pictures.
    XXOO

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  5. Lauren Marco Avatar

    I just wanted to say that with all your blessings in the past couple of years you have had such heartache to endure alongside it. My prayers to your Aunt and your family at this time and know that you touched me in this post and I am sure this quilt will mean exactly what you want it to mean to your Aunt.

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  6. Tammy Avatar

    What a sweet blessing you are giving to your Aunt. God Bless all of you during this time.

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  7. Amy Avatar

    The fabric is beautiful, your Aunt will love it. It’s such a good idea! I’m so sorry to hear about her.

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  8. Alexis Avatar
    Alexis

    Oh Morgan, I’m sorry to hear about your Aunt. I truly hope you and your family find peace and tranquility at this difficult time. It sounds like you’ve already found laughter and love which we all know can heal so much. I am positive your aunt will love your quilt and feel the love and comfort you are making and sending her. When I had chemo, my son would send me with his favorite blanket. It made all the difference in the world. I’m sure it will for your aunt too. I’ll be sending good “juju” vibes your way.

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  9. julie Avatar
    julie

    Your aunt will definitely love the quilt… especially since you made it!

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  10. Jen Avatar
    Jen

    It is a beautiful quilt and she will love that each block and stitch was done with her in mind. What a lovely gift. Love to you and your family, Morgan. I admire the way you all have handled such loss this season with grace, fortitude and creativity. Soldier on!

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  11. Sarah Avatar

    I am sure the quilt will be as special a Blessing to your dear aunt as it is to you to make. What a warm and wonderful gesture!

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  12. Becky K Avatar

    I really love this quilt. What size is each piece? I’d just love to make my daughter one!!

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  13. Sandra Avatar

    Oh Morgan, your Aunt will surely love it! Not only because it is beautiful (it is indeed) but for all the reasons you mentioned. I can think of no better way to send love afar than to wrap someone up in a quilt made just for them. Thank you for sharing–your Aunt sounds amazing.

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  14. Morgan Avatar

    Hi Becky- the sizes weren’t all the same- I’ll post the details of what I did on Monday.

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  15. annette Clark Avatar

    I am so sorry to hear about your aunt…i am sure she will Just LOVE that quilt as you have made it for her and stithed it with so many loving memories…

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  16. Monica Avatar

    I just wanted to let you know that I passed a blog award onto you. Come check it out.
    http://dontforgetthefood.blogspot.com/2010/02/kreativ-blogger-award.html

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  17. Genevieve Kolling Avatar
    Genevieve Kolling

    Morgs, I think I am using up all my tears right now. My mom did love the quilt, and so does the whole family, it is so amazing and beautiful. What a wonderful act of love and service; I will cherish it always. It was the perfect size for her bed.
    Thank you for all of your support and love during this time.
    Love,
    Genevieve

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